Empress Wu NYC — Exegesis

On BDSM and Race Pt 2, Featuring The Artist Formerly known as Niko Flux

“My mother....would have been so good at this” and other musings about our parents.

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On Queerness and Kink, with Mistrix Sunmi

“Being queer…informs my politics, it informs my fashion, it informs the sex that I have, it informs my gender. It really feels like a bloodline.”

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On Boundaries and Intimacy, with Mistress Molly

“I have to be willing and ready to step up to those relationships and to be prepared to receive them. That whole experience of receiving and allowing is something that is really difficult to learn and so crucial. That's sacred.”

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On Secrets

How sticky and sweet a secret is, enveloping its keepers in a cushy interiority and slicking both parties in a fine film of knowing.

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On Roleplay

Roleplaying creates an entire universe in which I am God and my play partner is human, but we are equally co-collaborators of this constructed cosmos.