On Roleplay

photo by Lanee Bird

A disclaimer before we begin: I am not interested in traditional roleplays. To entice me into a schoolgirl fantasy, a sexy librarian scenario, or a secretary/boss dynamic takes a lot of work and creativity. My interest in roleplaying requires worldbuilding, and stems from the question:

“What role does fantasy play in our collective liberation?”

Roleplay taps into the creative space in BDSM that makes me salivate. Its deliciousness is based in its journey, not its outcome, sparked by musings of “What would happen if…” Roleplaying creates an entire universe in which I am God and my play partner is human, but we are equally co-collaborators of this constructed cosmos.

Some roleplay scenarios that I have been desiring recently include:

• A scene in which I transform my submissive into a 2012 Kia Optima, and total my vehicle

• A Dealer/artist dynamic

• A scene in which I turn my submissive into an altar of love, dedicated to my lover.

• And, as always, execution and cannibalism roleplays

To watch the class I gave on creative roleplay for 7 Days of Domination, click here.

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