Birthday Blessings: A (BDSM) Year in Review
The passage of My birthday offers Me the perfect opportunity to reflect on the BDSM-related accomplishments of this last year, and to set intentions for the following year.
This past year I
Moved to New York City, a dream of mine since I was 16 years old.
Came out as a dominatrix to My parents.
Discovered how much I adore peeing on and suffocating people. In the same vein, realized how much BDSM must stem from love.
Met a fantastic community of dominatrices and sex workers in New York City that has made me feel nothing but welcome.
Met some radically impressive submissives and fetishists that are curious to explore and eager to receive.
Learned that the risks are worth it
She puts the “cut” in charcuterie. #edgeplay
This coming year,
I want to feed and be fed: mentally, physically, emotionally. More breathplay sessions! More cock and ball torture! More golden showers and spittoons! More sploshing!
I want to stretch myself to my limits, and uncover areas of desire that I didn’t know existed. I’m interested in becoming more well-versed in bloody activities and medical play, as well as more advanced bondage. And I want to travel! A West Coast tour might be in the works
I’m committed to being a space of support for other dommes, adult industry workers and submissives.
I’m committed to surrounding Myself with information, things, and people that light My hair on fire.
I have a lot of people to love and a lot of things to be grateful for. Thank you to all of My beautiful friends for attending My birthday picnic in Prospect Park, as well as N and R for the birthday tributes. To all My other submissives, belated birthday/Father’s Day tributes and gifts are always welcome.
Until next year,
Empress Wu